The tomb is still empty.

His Resurrection changed everything, and it still does.

Maybe during these past couple days, you’ve felt yourself slipping. Maybe hope feels a little harder to hold onto. Life has a way of wearing us down, especially when we’re dealing with self-doubt, setbacks, or comparison. But the same power that raised Jesus from the dead is alive, burning like a furnace inside and available to you right now.

In Matthew 8:26 (NLT), Jesus asked His disciples, “Why are you afraid? You have so little faith!” Then He got up and rebuked the wind and waves, and suddenly there was a great calm. The same voice that silenced the storm can quiet the chaos within you.

Maybe it’s time to ask yourself a deeper question:

Do You Love/Like Yourself?

Most of us would quickly say yes. But our inner thoughts and behaviors often tell a different story.

Are you comfortable in your own skin? Content with how you look and who you are? Or do you find yourself constantly comparing, wishing you were more like someone else? When you look in the mirror, what do you see—a person of value, or someone who keeps falling short?

The truth is, our self-esteem often shifts with our circumstances and feelings. But real growth starts when we learn to accept who we are—right now—flaws and all, while still moving toward who we’re becoming.

If you’re overly self-critical, here are five ways to begin liking yourself more, grounded in Scripture and grace:

1.Celebrate Your Accomplishments

Philippians 4:13 (NLT):

“For I can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength.”

Instead of focusing only on what needs improvement, take time to notice what you’re doing well. Celebrate even the small wins—like finishing a task, showing kindness, or cooking a great meal. Recognizing your progress honors the work God is doing in you.

2. Remember—No One Is Perfect

Matthew 19:21 (NLT):

“Jesus told him, ‘If you want to be perfect, go and sell all your possessions and give the money to the poor…’”

Jesus knew perfection wasn’t achievable through human effort. It’s a reminder to stop comparing ourselves to others. Even those who look perfect have their own struggles. You were created uniquely by God—and He’s not asking for perfection, just your heart.

3. Be Patient with Yourself

Psalm 37:7–9 (NLT):

“Be still in the presence of the Lord and wait patiently for him to act… Stop being angry! Turn from your rage! Do not lose your temper—it only leads to harm.”

Change and healing don’t happen overnight. Set realistic goals, give yourself time, and show yourself the same patience you’d offer a friend. God is working in your waiting.

4. Be Kind to Your Past Self

Isaiah 43:18–19 (NLT):

“But forget all that— it is nothing compared to what I am going to do. For I am about to do something new. See, I have already begun! Do you not see it?”

We’ve all made mistakes, but shame doesn’t have to define you. God invites you to release the past and embrace the new work He’s doing in your life. You’re not who you were—you’re being made new.

5. Appreciate “Most” of Yourself

Colossians 3:23–24 (NLT):

“Work willingly at whatever you do, as though you were working for the Lord rather than for people. Remember that the Lord will give you an inheritance as your reward…”

You may never love every part of yourself—and that’s okay. Even liking yourself 1% or even .1% is a great start! When you commit your efforts to God, you begin to see yourself through His eyes—capable, valuable, and deeply loved. It’s when we let go and let God that we being to Appreciate 85% of ourselves or more.

You Don’t Have to Do This Alone

Developing healthy self-esteem isn’t always easy, especially if you’ve struggled with it for years. But help is available. Working with a therapist can offer you new tools, new insights, and a fresh sense of hope. If you or someone you care about is ready to take that step, don’t wait. Reach out today—we’d be honored to walk alongside you.

Lord, thank You for creating me with love and purpose.

When I struggle to see my worth, remind me that I am fearfully and wonderfully made in Your image.

Help me to silence self-doubt, embrace grace, and see myself through Your eyes.

Teach me to love myself not out of pride, but because I belong to You—a good and caring Father.

In Jesus’ name,

Amen.